Now, I admit that I am definitely a Reality TV fan and I have been since the first season of the MTV's Real World (which as far as I know was the start of the Reality TV craze), however I am not nor have I even tried to emulate my life according to what is depicted as "reality" on TV.
But let's not forget that these shows are for entertainment purposes only. Now I am not here to question other people's relationships but to merely question those individuals who take to twitter and other social networking sites to express their thoughts while watching Reality TV shows suggesting that they want relationships like Jim & Chrissy, Tiny & TI, Evelyn & Chad and so fourth ....
First off, I've seen the ladies swoon and buss all kinda nuts over the Kaaaannng aka T.I. and damn near give him father of the year. Hmmmm.... Yes, he definitely seems to be a lovely father and I will not take that from him. But let's pause for a minute, if he were such a great Dad as he is being portrayed, then why can't that this young man stay out of jail?
So is that truly the man you would want in your life?
Then you have Jimmy and Chrissy, so yeah everybody says that Chrissy is a "ride or die chick" and "she holds Jimmy down" ... *rolls eyes*
But when she proposed to him like a sucka *shakes head in shame* he hit her with a half ass "I gotchu" and slick grin but clearly NEVER said "YES". Then this season on Love & Hip Hop, she kinda shook him up with the "I need some space" speech, so he then follows her to Miami and gives her a rather aggressive proposal.
And all the bishes went wild on my TL (that’s Twitter lingo for 'timeline') as if he just did something amazing. Yes he proposed, but was it to a appease her? Or did he have a little fear in his heart thinking she was going to leave him?
So ask your self: Do you want to be with a guy who you’ve been “holding down” for years but he's not willing to give you the commitment that you really desire?
Then there's the very charming Chad Johnson (Ochocinco) and the beautiful Evelyn from Basketball Wives Miami.
They seem so cute together, right? And I'm sure their tweets between each other are so cute, right? Yes!! and you have to admit that Chad is a very nice looking brother and their on camera love affair appeared to quite ideal.
But as a mature older woman, Evelyn could only take so much from her young boy toy accordingly to TMZ has called off the wedding, today! smh
Whether its true or not, how long could you really deal with such immature behavior from a man who always has suspicious tendencies?
So the moral of this rant is to encourage ladies to never look at relationships on TV that seem appealing, nor to the relationships of women who seem to have it all and say "I want a relationship/man like that". (Whether its your Pastor, Best-friend, Co-Worker etc..) You never know the price that she is paying to deal with that "ideal" man because everything that looks good on the outside aint always sweet!
Nobody's perfect and relationships definitely take hard work! And you'll be a fool to think otherwise!! (TRUST ME, I KNOW!)
But I do encourage women to follow their passion, never settle for less and focus on want you really desire! Work on being who you want to find, then allow the Universe to align the stars up accordingly and send the man who is designed for you, to you! He will add to you (not take from you), love you whole heartedly and alllll of that :))
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